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Let's Talk About Hair Depression: The Impact on Black Women

The cultural significance of hair for Black Women

Hair has always been deeply embedded in Black culture as a means of self-expression. Whether it is relaxed, straightened, or natural, Black women use their hair to showcase their individuality and cultural heritage. However, when their hair is not styled, many Black women experience an overwhelming sense of self-consciousness and a reluctance to be seen or engage in social activities.

Table Of Contents

  • Understanding Hair Depression
  • The Impact of Hair Depression on Mental Health
  • Hair as a Communication Tool
  • Addressing Hair Depression: Psychohairpy and Mental Health Support
  • How African Australian women Experience Hair Depression
  • Overcoming Hair Depression: Empathy, Support, and Self-Care
  • Practical tools to tackle hair depression: Pre- styled products for self care
  • Conclusion

Understanding Hair Depression

You planned your outfit  and the final piece, your crown isn't playing its part. Maybe your edges won't lay how you envisioned or your afro-puff is just not round or big enough. It's show time and your hair is just not 'hairing'.

Hair depression is a phenomenon unique to Black women and is a term used to describe the emotional and psychological distress that arises when their hair is not styled or doesn't meet societal standards. The roots of hair depression can be traced back to the intersection of beauty standards, self-worth, and the historical context of the African communities.

Black women often internalize societal messages that equate their value and worth to their appearance. This can lead to feelings of low self-esteem and constant pressure to conform to Eurocentric beauty ideals. The resulting hair depression can manifest as anxiety, frustration, and even full-blown emotional breakdowns

The Impact of Hair Depression on Mental Health

Hair depression can have a significant impact on the mental health of Black women. The pressure to maintain a certain hairstyle can cause stress and anxiety, leading to a decline in overall well-being. Many Black women report feeling a loss of self-confidence and a reluctance to engage in social activities when their hair is not styled to their satisfaction.

Some Black women feel uneasy wearing their natural hair or traditional protective styles in the workplace due to the unwanted extra attention received when wearing these styles. These experiences further exacerbate feelings of hair depression and contribute to a sense of not being fully accepted in professional settings.

Hair as a communication tool

Hair serves as a powerful communication tool within the Black community. It is a means of expressing one's identity, heritage, and emotions. When Black women's hair does not align with their desired style, they may feel a disconnect between their external appearance and their internal sense of self. This misalignment can impact their ability to effectively communicate their needs, desires, and emotions.

Addressing Hair Depression: Psychohairpy and Mental Health Support

Dr. Afiya Mbilishaka, a clinical psychologist and hairstylist, has coined the term "psychohairpy" to describe the intersection between hair and mental health. She emphasizes the importance of hairstylists providing not only haircare but also emotional support to their clients. By creating a safe and empathetic space, hairstylists can help mitigate the effects of hair depression and promote overall mental well-being.

How African Australian Women Experience Hair Depression

It is essential to acknowledge the unique challenges faced by African Australian women in accessing hairstylists who can provide the level of care and support Dr Mbilishaka recommends. Hair salons that can provide services to clients with textured hair care are generally located in neighborhoods where large groups of migrants settle. While this has historically served communities well, it doesn’t provide the level of service required today, or in the future. People with textured hair live all over Australia and most don’t have a hair salon they can go to at their local shopping strip and have to travel far from where they live to access a salon. Limited access to hair services can cause feelings of isolation and frustration and contribute to hair depression.

Overcoming Hair Depression: Empathy, Support, and Self-Care

To overcome hair depression, it is crucial to foster empathy and support within the community. By acknowledging and discussing the emotional impact of hair on mental health, Black women can find solace in shared experiences and work towards dismantling unrealistic beauty standards. Additionally, practicing self-care and prioritizing mental well-being can help Black women navigate the complexities of hair depression.

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Hair depression is a real and significant issue that affects the mental health and well-being of Black women. The cultural significance of hair, combined with societal beauty standards, can create emotional distress and feelings of inadequacy. By promoting open dialogue, providing support, and fostering self-acceptance, we can begin to address the impact of hair depression on Black women's mental health. 

It's crucial to create inclusive and accessible spaces within the Australian haircare industry to support the needs of  African Australian women who face unique challenges in accessing hair salons. Through empathy, understanding, and self-care, we can empower each other to embrace our natural beauty and cultivate positive mental health. .

Where to get mental health support

Your GP (doctor)

 Mental healthcare professional

 Beyondblue, call 1300 22 4636

Hair depression is a phenomenon unique to Black women and is a term used to describe the emotional and psychological distress that arises when their hair is not styled or doesn't meet societal standards.


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